Remember the new friend? Dang, he's intense. He's needy and tries not to be, which is so familiar to me from my end - usually it's me saying "it's ok" when it's not, "I don't mind" when I do, etc (see under recent posts about my frush-frama). He obviously has his own little frush-frama going. And I am presented with the same dilemma I have offered others - he seems like a great guy and I'd like to be friends, but at what point do the minuses outweigh the pluses? Lots of musing about boundaries and how they feel!

No exercise; talked to my meditation instructor but no meditation (she reminded me to just listen to the chaotic roar that is the mind without meditation... Don't fight it just observe it.) I realized that good time with wifey is also self care, which is easier than some of the other things! But I think that's just because we're getting along pretty well right now... I did get some work done today so that was good... Forgot to record yesterday that I made some progress clearing out the dining room, which has been a mess for 1.5 years... I dunno...

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